Does anyone use a sex doll?

I have decided to make a thread of the pictures of my doll over the time of one year since I bought her. 

Call me crazy but I am in absolute love with her. I do all kinds of stuff- dress her,  comb her wigs, hug her and kiss her. She not only saved me from harrowing experience of prostitutes but gave me another healthy vent for my sexual energies. 

Continued..

I know it isn't relevant to this, but how did you manage to attach multiple files to a post? I can only seem to add one per post.

Add one and edit the post to add another

Thanks

Yes it is really crazy 😑... 

Divert that energy in productive things and real life relationships 

Ya I would like to do that if it works for me. But meanwhile it's an absolute privilege to have doll I like. Ofcouse a lesser privilege than having a relationship that works. But nonetheless a privilege,  a perverted one I agree. 

Posted by: @picachu

Divert that energy in productive things and real life relationships 

I'm sure this was said with the most well meaning of intent but it does suggest some things are more healthy and worthwhile than others which can come across as somewhat condescending.

I'm just about the most sceptical and a huge critic of whole the modern phenomenon of 'wokeness', social justice and identity politics. To my mind it is highly superficial and wholly bankrupt a movement that can never be an alternative to free speech, individual rights and being responsible for our own actions and the state of our own lives so you won't ever hear/read me pointing out remarks that I take as 'non pc', taking offence at anything I don't agree with or be guilty of virtue signalling.

A snowflake I am not but I'm exactly like Marc Bolan sang a Twentieth Century Boy lol.

I feel it beneficial if not actually necessary to explain all that because it's so normal nowadays particularly online for someone to get all het up when someone dares to make a comment that could be critical of another’s lifestyle or actions.

So while I just cannot agree with the comment above I certainly have no issue with anyone making it or with the person themselves.

I get where it comes from, the normal 'healthy' way to live would be to engage fully with the real world, to seek out meaningful relationships with real people. That's what we're all supposed to aspire to and anyone that either fails or isn't appearing to try is somehow lesser than all those who are, or if not lesser then not doing what they should be doing.

The thing is anyone who not only enjoys the 'company' of sex dolls has every right to without someone suggesting they may be using that as a way to avoid the real world or in other words 'man up' which may not be how the commenter meant it but it could be taken that way.

Ultimately, the only person Sunleo has any obligation to justify himself to is himself, no one else. We can all judge based on not a lot more than personal opinion and next to no actual understanding of anything behind the what, why and how that make up Sunleo's choices and I for one have respect for what it takes to talk about these things so openly.

Yes, it's so easy to say it's not that brave when no one actually knows who Sunleo may be in real life, I suspect it would be very difficult to identify who he is and where he lives through an elitebabes user account therefore there's no actual risk in talking about such things but speaking for myself I invest quite a lot of myself into my online identity such as this user account.

Obviously I don't use my real name and as much as I truly wish it was my avatar isn't a photo of me, damn lol. The point is it may not be exactly the same as if I had an account that used my driving licence photo i.d aswell as real name and address yet over time and with greater interaction upon the site it becomes more and more personal to me so any revelations or opinions I make are not only real opinions etc but the way they are recieved start to really matter.

Assuming SunLeo's experience is in any way similar then this entire thread is a very personal and intimate subject that took a great deal of courage to start talking about, then to further elaborate on.

Personally, I'm not wholly exactly what's at the root of his initial need to pay for sexual satisfaction rather than going down the real life relationship route. It may be a confidence thing,it may be that in his social circle that sex before marriage is just not done or a whole other raft of potential reasons either way he clearly has personal difficulties with prostitution and has found that sex dolls are a much more satisfactory solution to his built up sexual energy.

I've no doubt that any healthy functioning male finds himself overloaded with sexual frustration and need when he hasn't a healthy outlet for them.And that's the crux of the issue  most of us are free to find female partners and have the confidence to try and try until we're lucky enough to score.

Some though are unable to seek out satisfactory outlets and it starts to fester and warp leading to either self destructive behaviour or much worse.

Then again the age old solution consists of masturbation or prostitution even but some people have issues over masturbation seeing it as a sin, self destructive or just a little sad and for losers.

For myself I'm presently between any real life partners and have found an incredible joy indulging my love of intense edging which may have started as some kind of substitute for sex but in truth has become a need for it's own sake and I enjoy it as regularly while seeing someone as when I'm not.

I can imagine many people thinking that makes me somehow inadequate and using it as a reason not to live in the real world but they know anything about my life so have no real understanding of what they're talking about in my specific case.

They are still free to have an opinion and every right to express it the moment that I put it out there I can't complain if people have something to say but that's where realising that everyone of us is an individual and it's always far better to talk about the points we differ or disagree about rather than judge each other for it.... the bonus being we are almost bound to learn something this way.

When I was a kid growing up in the 70s and 80s the expression "if we all liked and thought the same it would be a very boring world" 😜😜

Thankyou so much..a rather long explanation but gives a lot of support and validation which no matter how much you deny you always seek from society.  

For me sockiboy freedom is highest virtue and speaking for oneself comes naturally.. it takes confidence sometimes unfortunately you have to muster courage and strength but as a value it flows freely for me and i behold it as the highest. 

It's an American thing basically and I strongly resonate with that culture. Though I am born in deeply conservative culture i am considered quite outlandish here and rightly so. 

Thankyou once again. 🙂

And for me somehow strangely masturbation using porn almost always brings out guilt and shame. And watching elitebabes and metart does not. Using my doll brings me joy and healthy thoughts. So, every one is different and multilayered. 

That's perfectly fine. When I read that comment about putting your  energies into real life and real relationships etc it read as condescending as hell to me even if it was meant well.

I'm sure to many people, most even the idea that seeking out that lifelong partner, career and social standing is what we all should be aiming for but we all have to find our own path and follow that wherever it may take us.

I could not agree with you more about the highest virtue being personal freedom, the right to be an individual which brings not only the necessity to speak for oneself but also taking personal responsibility for both your actions, your successes, failures, mistakes and less than proud moments.

The only part of that that I would disagree about is that being an American thing. It certainly once was very much an English virtue that was taken up and adopted by America but has somewhat lost it's direct connection with the people of the green and present land whilst being championed by a wildly US centric media from Hollywood to US TV etc.

A lot of what found it's way into the fledgling United States in the late 18th century came directly from the arguements and literature produced in England in the 1640s.....when people refer to the 'Civil War' it endlessly annoys me that they mean the American Civil War and not the English Civil War which has had a far greater legacy down through the centuries than the later American one did.

Haha, once more Rant Over lol

Ya ofcourse, I am an outside spectator and don't know the history so well. Let's call it the European US thing then. From where I see it's the value which resonates very much in the US and many European countries. 

Has anyone tried a blow up doll? What are they like to use?