Most embarrassing sexual moment??

Posted by: @electrostar

Oh no. Did they just immediately end the friendship or was it a different sort of group?

It was just a random group.. almost everyone was unknown 

Well at least with that you won't see them again and be reminded of it.

Posted by: @randomboy

Sent my dick pic in a WhatsApp group by mistake 

Nightmare and hilarious at same  time 

 My most embarrassing sexual moment,one of many to be fair,was the first time with someone new.

It'd been a while and I was absolutely fired up and into her.

She unzipped me and pull my very hard cock out to get intimate with except I blew it there and then before I even had the chance to reign myself in.

This wasn't way back in my teens but in my 30s so for the benefit of everyone let me just say it doesn't matter how much experience you may have had in the past we're all prone to going off early from time to time lol 😊😊

Oh no... 😂

I would wish this won't happen to me but it almost certainly will.

 It happens to all of us and I think any guy who says it doesn't is not being honest lol.

It's one of those things that's part of being male.

Women find it quite difficult sometimes to cum while we can cum far too quickly if we're not careful.

The plus side of that night was after cuming basically instantly it meant I got it out of the way and was able to get into more afterwards.

Really,all I could do was laugh it off and apologise before switching my attention fully onto her for a time.

Needless to say even after blasting all that cum everywhere unexpectedly it didn't take me long at all to recover lol.

As you say,you don't want it to happen to you but expect that it will.

Well,at some point it probably will ,when it does don't get all put out over it or let it ruin the rest of the night .

In fact,if you think it might happen then you can always nip to the bathroom beforehand and have a quick wank to get it out of the way allowing you to handle it better with someone else.

That's an old trick for these situations that works but truthfully if happens and you laugh it off,acknowledge it and don't let it embarrass you too greatly it's almost certain to be fine.

It happens lol.

Posted by: @electrostar

There was my first sexual encounter but I don't think I should talk about it.

 Mmm

Mmm.,that's almost like a tease or a wind up saying well there was this but I'm not going to say anymore about it.

Very unfair lol.

I'm the one teasing,if you're not comfortable saying more than absolutely don't.

Only discuss what you're completely at ease with talking about.

This forum is ultimately to promote positive conversation and friendly interaction so never feel pressed or compelled to say anything too personal if you truly don't want to.

Afterall,I'm only too happy to discuss my embarrassing and humiliating experiences because they're in the past now so I may aswell get a laugh from them lol.👍👍😁

As for the wank before sex trick - you have to release a single before an album!

I have told people about the embarrassing story but privately (to my counsellor for example). I don't think it would be a good idea to talk about it openly on the internet, especially if they see the post.

 That's entirely up to you,if you don't think it's a good idea then don't do it 🙂

Haha,I like that though,relaasing a single before the album 🙂

Well put lol

Posted by: @sockitboy

 It happens to all of us and I think any guy who says it doesn't is not being honest lol.

It's one of those things that's part of being male.

Women find it quite difficult sometimes to cum while we can cum far too quickly if we're not careful.

The plus side of that night was after cuming basically instantly it meant I got it out of the way and was able to get into more afterwards.

Really,all I could do was laugh it off and apologise before switching my attention fully onto her for a time.

Needless to say even after blasting all that cum everywhere unexpectedly it didn't take me long at all to recover lol.

 

As you say,you don't want it to happen to you but expect that it will.

Well,at some point it probably will ,when it does don't get all put out over it or let it ruin the rest of the night .

In fact,if you think it might happen then you can always nip to the bathroom beforehand and have a quick wank to get it out of the way allowing you to handle it better with someone else.

That's an old trick for these situations that works but truthfully if happens and you laugh it off,acknowledge it and don't let it embarrass you too greatly it's almost certain to be fine.

It happens lol.

Yeah its very normal especially when you are too much excited. Once i was watching movie with my friend in a theater. She dragged her hand in my pant and dont know i cummed instantly.😖that was really embarrassing 

 Yeah,it's just part of being a male.

There are solutions to it,plenty of practice by hand focusing on drawing it out because if you get into the habit early of stroking hard and fast for a quick finish then you condition yourself to do that all the time.

It can take a lot of patience,practice,effort and time to recondition yourself to handle some serious stimulation,god knows it took me a fair amount of time to learn to resist cuming fast,I had the help of an older woman who took it upon herself to help me out 🙂

Even after that and years later sometimes it just overtakes you no matter how you try not to let it 😜

I honestly believe the only real way to deal with it is to laugh,make a joke and forget it.

Accept it's part of being male and having a penis. That's the irony of being a man,we're supposed to be all this and that.

Display self control and stoicism,confidence and self assurance,non flappable and a paragon of male pride yet we're absolutely prone to going off the minute she grabs on to it or before she's barely got going.

We're meant to be the stronger sex while women are the 'weaker' sex but I tend to believe that we are the weaker due to our stupid pride and badly misjudged ego.

The fact many women fake orgasm rather than say 'oi,you ain't getting me there !!!' says a lot about us not the ones faking.

If we weren't so full of false pride they could be honest and open about it.

What's more it's quite some juggling trick to be open,honest and able to accept you're not hitting her bullseye not to mention discuss why and how to rectify it without looking like a 'beta' male - whatever the hell that means !!!

It's a difficult tightrope walk to be yourself and dismiss all the societal bullshit about what a 'real' man is,what's expected,living up to this unrealistic ideal while not shitting on yourself for not making it.

It sounds SO damn easy,just be yourself and you can't go wrong but it's absolutely true yet so fucking hard to do especially when a young bloke as you haven't yet figured out who the hell you actually are lol.

Life,man it's a serious.piss take lol

How did you manage to train yourself to cum slower? While I don't need it for sex I do find I cum too quickly when masturbating.

Slowing it down and making it last. In some ways edging would be the kind of thing but not as an end in itself but to get more accustomed to the feeling of being stimulated and played with but when you start to feel yourself coming on,the feeling of it building then back off allowing the feeling to ease up before starting over.

Also those kegel exercises do help.If you can gain full muscular control of the area it allows you to clench somewhat causing your building climax to stop.

I'd look up those exercises online from a decent medical site as they can give you a much better practice regime than I could but they truly do help 👍👍

I think I have got better at edging, I've been practicing a bit. When I'm writing my erotic novel (which I have been doing very recently) I naturally get a boner and I tease it a little, which keeps me in the mood for about an hour so I can write sexy scenes. Of course when the time comes and I cum, I can't write anymore unless it's non-erotic bits.

 Really that's about the best approach.

To stop masturbating with the intent of bringing yourself off in one go amd quickly and getting into the idea of making it much more drawn out with phases or cycles of building up and backing off.

Getting much more accustomed to being stroked and stimulated for longer and to a greater degree without necessarily climaxing because that will really help.

Ultimately it can only go so far there will always be those times when it kicks in too quickly and you go off like or not lol.

I suppose you could sum it up as the age old advice to enjoy the journey and stop worrying about the destination lol.