I hv lost my virginity recently. My sex time is just 2 to 3 minutes. How to increase that??
29/03/2023 6:49 pm
U can try start stop technique, use extra time condoms, dotted also works as they makes her cum faster. Or u can just finger or lick her until she's about to cum and then start fucking with ur penis.
31/03/2023 4:29 pm
Try to relax first.
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31/03/2023 4:40 pm
Try to relax first.
Yeah right...
05/04/2023 2:53 pm
I'm serious. A major part of the reason why someone won't last long is because they're worried. Calming down first can help increase how long you spend in bed.
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08/04/2023 2:16 am
I'm serious. A major part of the reason why someone won't last long is because they're worried. Calming down first can help increase how long you spend in bed.
Yes you're right... i used to ejaculate in 30 - 40 seconds, sometimes even during foreplay in my starting days. I think it was because of too much pressure and excitement to perform well. It increases automatically
08/04/2023 6:51 am
I'm serious. A major part of the reason why someone won't last long is because they're worried. Calming down first can help increase how long you spend in bed.
Yes you're right... i used to ejaculate in 30 - 40 seconds, sometimes even during foreplay in my starting days. I think it was because of too much pressure and excitement to perform well. It increases automatically
Okk I'll try
10/04/2023 2:46 pm
You should absolutely listen to what these lads are saying.... I'm serious when I say that too.
This is about pleasure and fun remember that, if you're anxious, worried, feeling under pressure to perform and rating yourself against some idealised sex god you think you have to compete with then sex becomes an ordeal rather than the joy it should be.
There are all kinds of long term exercises and techniques that will allow you to gain more control over how long you last from kegels to edging for longer and longer period of time over weeks or months.
Here's probably one suggestion you may not appreciate but will be far more effective than anything else, talk to your gf.
Obviously, if you lost it during a one nighter then ignore what I just said but if she's a gf then tell her. I guarantee she'll feel good that you've confided in her so will be far more inclined to help you increase how long you last.
For an instant, there and then but very temporary solution then when things are heating up but before the clothes are all over the floor make an excuse to nip off to the bathroom quickly then have a quick but full on wank to the point to coming.
When you've cleaned up the mess and are back in the middle of things you'll find that you DO NOT come anywhere near as fast the second time round.
It isn't so effective if you do it too early so try and time it for 15-20 mins before actually fucking her so you still feel kind of desensitised.
Hope that helps 🙂
14/04/2023 3:08 am
Good advice from Sockitboy, although I'd like to add that the wank-before-sex method depends on how long you need to 'recharge' afterwards. Personally I'd do some tests when you're only to see how long after masturbating you can get hard again. Because the only thing worse than finishing fast is not being able to get it up at all.
Foreplay might make you relax more as well. A massage perhaps, with or without oil. I've done that before. It turned me on pretty quickly but it also calmed me down, even if we didn't have sex afterwards. If you're worried about how long you take to cum I wouldn't let her give you a blow- or hand job, but feel free to pleasure her. One or two fingers in her vagina perhaps, maybe lick it, you could rub your finger around her butt or her clitoris, and lick the latter (and the former if you're feeling up for it). There are other places on her body that you could pleasure her with. You could play with her nipples or kiss her ears or neck, for example. You don't need to make her orgasm from foreplay (and for some women it's better if you don't, since some women get overly sensitive vaginas afterwards making it painful to have sex) but if you do make sure there's a towel to clean up, especially if she can squirt. (And if she can squirt, 🫡 I salute you)
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14/04/2023 12:45 pm
I totally agree with @sockitboy and @electrostar.
Talking and sharing is the key. Discuss with her. I've experienced that sex is not all about fucking with your dick. It is more about intimacy, pleasure and foreplay. According to me actual sex is just 30% part. The other 70% is making love. Many times me and my gf don't have real sex. We just play with each other. There are many things you can try like toys, masaages cuddling fingering anal and list goes on. It all depends on your creativity. You can even make her wet just by kissing also. So talk to her and asks what she likes.
16/04/2023 11:35 am
Thank you all for your advice..I'll try.
17/04/2023 6:39 am
Good advice from Sockitboy, although I'd like to add that the wank-before-sex method depends on how long you need to 'recharge' afterwards. Personally I'd do some tests when you're only to see how long after masturbating you can get hard again. Because the only thing worse than finishing fast is not being able to get it up at all.
Foreplay might make you relax more as well. A massage perhaps, with or without oil. I've done that before. It turned me on pretty quickly but it also calmed me down, even if we didn't have sex afterwards. If you're worried about how long you take to cum I wouldn't let her give you a blow- or hand job, but feel free to pleasure her. One or two fingers in her vagina perhaps, maybe lick it, you could rub your finger around her butt or her clitoris, and lick the latter (and the former if you're feeling up for it). There are other places on her body that you could pleasure her with. You could play with her nipples or kiss her ears or neck, for example. You don't need to make her orgasm from foreplay (and for some women it's better if you don't, since some women get overly sensitive vaginas afterwards making it painful to have sex) but if you do make sure there's a towel to clean up, especially if she can squirt. (And if she can squirt, 🫡 I salute you)
Yeah she squirts. Till now I've only made her squirt while fingering or licking. I just want to make her squirt while fucking
17/04/2023 6:43 am
You'll need to get her G-spot for that, or perhaps use a vibrator?
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17/04/2023 6:44 am
You'll need to get her G-spot for that, or perhaps use a vibrator?
My fingers works well in making her cum. I just want to make her squirt using my dick
17/04/2023 7:00 am
You'll need to get her G-spot for that, or perhaps use a vibrator?
My fingers works well in making her cum. I just want to make her squirt using my dick
Try using some viagras but only after doctor's consultation
17/04/2023 7:09 am