I often see people who can create quite a lot of cum but I usually struggle to create anything near that much. They also seem to have it 'shoot out' whereas mine just dribbles out. There's the usual advice such as waiting three days and drinking a lot of water but are there any other suggestions?
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there's a medicine for creating more cum, I've seen it on pornhub, but I don't know the name. the shooting is mostly about pelvic muscle, practise it everyday, you'll get better
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U masturbate daily?
Almost daily.
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Daily masturbation causes low and diluted amount of cum
Excessive sexual activity is the cause of it. I am striving to go celibate for one year. May it happen soon
Good luck for that
I often see people who can create quite a lot of cum but I usually struggle to create anything near that much. They also seem to have it 'shoot out' whereas mine just dribbles out. There's the usual advice such as waiting three days and drinking a lot of water but are there any other suggestions?
Yeah try not to masturbate every day. Also, when masturbating or having sex, getting close and stopping before you cum several times will make you cum harder, like pumping up a water gun.
I've tried edging a few times although it doesn't seem to have much of an effect. Last time I edged three times; in your experience how many times would I have to do it to see an effect?
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Try to refrain from sexual activity for some time. Too much of everything is bad. And masturbating almost daily is really bad.
I've tried edging a few times although it doesn't seem to have much of an effect. Last time I edged three times; in your experience how many times would I have to do it to see an effect?
You just have to figure put what works for you. Also try to do it after not masturbating for a day or more. Do Kegel exercises all the time as well.
What's a Kegel exercise?
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There is a lot to be said for the benefits of edging apart from it being a highly enjoyable and pleasurable method of masturbation.
When you talk about not ejaculating large amounts of semen not it discharging very far could be down to all kinds of factors. Perhaps you're not someone who produces a large amount per orgasm,I find that I don't seem to shoot the reams of come that you would typically see in porn or online. I'm not sure if that's because apparently my balls aren't huge or some other reason.
What I do know that if I'm having a more normal seeking relief type of wank then the physical power of my climax and the volume, consistency plus range of my cumshot isn't anything too impressive.
If I've not masturbated for a number of days or a week the first time after a brief break of a few days or a week is a little more powerful but truthfully not significantly at all.
The only failsafe technique that truly makes a very noticable difference is by edging. Also the degree of arousal and my level of excitement can have an effect but for solo times I find edging has the biggest far beyond anything else.
First though, you have to be truthful and honest with yourself about your attitude to masturbation and what's your actual intent during it.
What I mean is many people despite the fact they indulge in it have quite a difficult relationship with the idea of masturbating. It's not so long ago that it was said to cause madness, blindness, degeneracy. It was said to be the cause of hairy palms and beyond the teenage years seen as something that real adults grew out of and left far behind.
Even today there can be somewhat of a sneering and joking attitude about it which it seems many people internalise which ks unfortunate.
So when you do masturbate do you do it for the enjoyment of the experience or most of all to bring yourself off and then cum ?
If you approach it in a very mechanical 'means to an end' manner then it's possible that you're not getting the result you want because you are hurrying the process along too much.
As for edging and that entire approach to it it's far, far more about the journey, almost entirely in fact, not the destination.
Speaking completely for myself what I found so enjoyable about edging that has consequently gone on to influence all areas of masturbation is how it frees me up entirely from the limitations that achieving an orgasm imposes on the whole process. We're so used to the idea that the end result we're all seeking is to shoot that load of sticky stuff everywhere and that the feeling when we cum is the ultimate feeling that matters.
It took several attempts and experiments with the whole idea of edging to realise what I felt all the way back when I very first began indulging and exploring as a lad. Back when I knew nothing at all about any of it. For a good while I enjoyed the feeling of being naked and holding my hard cock in my hand, stroking it lovingly and exploring the rest of my naked body. For a long while I believed that was the entire point, the exquisite pleasure I felt from playing and exploring with no notion of cuming,shooting or even that I produced this creamy fluid that would go everywhere lol.
That's what I rediscovered very quickly while trying out this edging business that others online suggested I should try if I wanted to take masturbation to another level entirely.
The enjoyment, the pleasure and above all else is the joy of being completely alone, fully naked and taking exquisite delight in just touching myself, holding my hard cock, running my fingers with a feather light touch barely brushing areas like the inside of my thigh,that area between my balls and rear, over my belly and around my waist. Wetting a fingertip and lightly brushing it over my tightly stretched ball sack or especially between my cheeks where my sensitive rear opening awaits.
When the excitement rises more and more I will certainly take a hold of my erect cock and stroke it like I might if I was enjoying a typical wank. It's here you need to recognise your own responses because there is a certain point I/we reach that I'd consider the point of no return after which you cannot pull back. It's not like the feeling while working yourself to the point of fully cuming but a good way before that.A point where if you do stop right after you most likely won't cum unless you keep going but it's like shooting your bolt anyway and round one is over except with no reward.
I've become incredibly familiar with the way my whole body responds to this situation and stroke it firmly and with some purpose, it does feel great holding it firmly and stroking it along it's full length, sometimes behind the head or at other times gripping the head itself but with the foreskin covering it.
Despite no intentions at all to reach the point of cuming the sensation of working up to it is a great feeling but when I can begin to feel that critical point approaching I will let go, often a fair bit off reaching it.
I've read time and time again that you need to get as close as physically possible before stopping aswell as maintaining a state of near climaxing indefinitely but I feel that's defeating the whole purpose while the risk of cuming is always seconds away.
The point of working yourself somewhere near the point of beginning to cum is to heighten your overall state of arousal then maintain it for sometime but after reaching that first stage that's where a far more sensitive, teasing, intensely intimate form of enjoyment really takes over.
I fall into a routine of stroking my now soften semi erect cock to a little more hard once more for the purpose of extracting streams of precum which I'll spread over particular areas of my body.
Making my balls, up and behind them back up into my arse crack slippery with it is a delight but possibly the greatest of sensations is to trace a lubed fingertip around the twitching opening found within.
All the time the exquisite teasing, playing and producing the most incredible sensations from touching the skin of my body now it's becoming more and more intensively stimulated becomes what it's all about.
The entire focus shifts from stroking to enjoying the specific sensation from each touch aswell as the pleasure from the whole experience, from being naked, so highly aroused and steadily and irrevocably ratcheting the whole experience up bit by bit.
I find myself switching between periods of intense teasing and exploration then stroking my pulsating erection again close to the edge but backing off once more. As great as all this feels the absolute failure occurrs if I push it too close and make myself cum.
If I reach the point where I attain a kind of state of altered consciousness then things truly take on a whole other dimension. When I say altered consciousness if anyone has tried LSD or ecstasy/MDMA then you would recognise the feeling of reality and time no longer existing outside of the room or beyond the here and now.
Also, every little feeling, brush of the sheets on your bare behind, the cool air against your face or cold where your skin is wet. Your whole body shakes and your breath comes quicker, heartrate speeds up and everything ramps up another level but now more than ever cuming means defeat, means the end of such a wonderful all encompassing feeling you've found.
During these kinds of sessions I have regularly lasted up to 8 hours with the longest ever reaching nearly 10.
Ultimately though, the end comes when either I misjudge it and push myself over the edge or reach the point where the need to cum is so powerful I can't help but go all the way.
Whichever case leads to the final lap it can actually take some time to work myself up to my first climax but when I reach it it is unlike anything I've experienced in any other situation I've ever experienced.
The initial explosion actually can make my head spin where I have often come close to passing out. The force of the release makes me cry out loudly and shudder violently from head to toe.
I've blown a load far thicker and many times larger clear across the other side of the room but this is just the first of many extensive shuddering, pulsating releases that rival the very best climaxes I've felt in any other situation.
The thing is after the last pumps if I carry on masturbating I find myself working up towards another serious climax that far exceeds any other I could reach either normally or from the most exhilarating sex.
I've even foumd myself working to a third round of climaxes from one night edging. The entire process is so wholly unique and powerful even compared to great sex, not necessarily better perhaps but in all honesty far more intensely sexual and physically powerful in a way neither normal masturbation nor sex could rival.
Oddly enough the only other form of sexual pleasure that's similar in terms of involving the entire body rather than being centred on the penis alone is when you experience prostate stimulation and orgasms.
I was once very lucky in having a gf with a very down to earth attitude towards sex so it was a huge shock when enjoying a nice blow job she started playing with my rear especially when her fingers went up there. After a bit though once she found the prostate and began to work it I experienced something unlike anything I had ever imagined. It was truly incredible though but that's a whole other story lol.
Anyway, I hadn't intended to give a personal but abbreviatef account of how it feels while edging but I thought it may be instructive to really point out how it works most effectively if the focus is diverted fully away from stroking your cock as much as possible for as long as possible.
If you can allow yourself to thoroughly enjoy the actual experience of stroking your cock, feeling and teasing your entire body. Getting more pleasure from your squeezing your balls, teasing and entering the arsehole, groping the cheeks,brushing the soft skin of the thighs,belly and other sensitive areas that respond intensely to being touched.
Extending it all well beyond the rather one dimensional simplicity of just stroking your dick can seriously take you to places you couldn't imagine.
It's all about your approach to it. It helps immensely if you truly enjoy being alone and feel good when you're naked. You have to enjoy touching your skin and body simply for the pleasure of touching yourself. Run your hands all over your body, down between your legs, along your sides, over your buttocks. Explore all around your balls then go down even further. Learn to love simply feeling your whole body both how it feels under your touch aswell as the feeling of being touched.
Concentrate on how it actually feels when you grip, grope and squeeze but also when you run a wet fingertip a lightly as the brush of a feather over your balls. Teach yourself how to get incredible sensations of pleasure from simply exploring your own body and once you find yourself enjoying it simply for it's own sake you can begin to work yourself close to cuming then back off and take pleasure in how heighten your senses become when aroused.
As someone also mentioned kegel exercises are incredibly helpful in all manner of ways. The stronger these muscles are the greater the sensation of release when cuming will be but also the amount of tension or ability to clench up they have the more explosive the release will be.
Most importantly of all, more than any of that. If you ask me the greatest benefit of training and building up some real strength and control of these muscles is how they allow you to hold off the urge to cum when you really don't want to.