Cumming More

That was quite enlightening, I'll give it a try.

 Well,

I hope it helps you to some degree.

The most  important point though that I wanted to make most of all with that post, which may have got lost as I'm afraid I got a little too into describing the process lol.

I really do feel whether you wish to go full on with edging or you're just after no more than a 'good wank' it's best of all if you or anyone for that matter can really enjoy the actual process of wanking for it's own enjoyment.

For me when edging cuming is the enemy as it means an end of the session but even during a 'normal'  session cuming is still the finale and the getting there where the true enjoyment lies.

Obviously,it really does depend on your attitude to wanking and how it makes you feel. I've heard many guys say it's all. good until. they cum. then they feel pretty hollow and guilty even.

I just can't relate to that as it suggests that there's ultimately something fundamentally demeaning about self pleasure or that it's only for the sad or pathetic who can't maintain a proper relationship.

Certainly, when I was younger and had a healthy sex life I dramatically reduced the frequency of my wanking as there seemed little point when sex was a far better pursuit.

Or that was until I rediscovered the enjoyment to be hand from it. Ever since then I've become a frequent and regular indulger in the art of solo 'alone' time with no desire to pass it up at all when I have had a partner as it's different and fully complimentary.

It comes down to the fact I love spending sometime to myself, getting completely naked, chatting or browsing online content like elitebabes.com for example.

It's just a great feeling to fully enjoy my own body that's absolutely fulfilling with nobody else to criticise your technique nor no need to worry whether what you are doing is having the desired effect. lol.

The other thing being that the more time you spend fully exploring yourself plus indulging your own pleasures to their extent teaches you what works for you aswell as being a complete ease with your own sexual desires.

It's critical I believe to learn to really enjoy being alone and intimate with yourself because if you cannot learn to love being naked and enjoying your own body then it's ridiculous to expect anyone else to enjoy it either. 

Whereas if you truly do love you 'alone' time then that sense of being at ease with yourself will help another to be at ease with you too which makes such a big difference.

Actually, I truly think that learning to enjoy the journey and worry less and less about the destination is the best approach to most of the endeavours we undergo in our lives, aswell as a great approach to life itself. 

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Wow, such a marathon to read. 🤭

But I tend to differ a lot on this. I tried the edging thing when I was inspired by manta chia text on holding the semen as the life giving fluid and transforming its energy to higher realms. 

He compares human bodies to trees and purpotes the analogy that we should never ejaculate a load of semen unless it is for reproductory purposes like all other species and even trees do. 

This automatically translates to heightened sexual pleasures as he teaches exercises also to push it back whenever it is about to explode.

I got so convinced that I was feeling a sort of charging energy while reading the book as if I had found the goldmine and the ultimate treasure. 

But as I translated it in action. I never felt the higher realms of anything. Rather the accumulated and unsatisfied sexual drive stored a frivolous distraught energy in the head. I could see the distraught built up energy in my eyes and I was not elevated but distraught.

So, now as a rule I never never ever hold back. I try not to develop any muscle which delays ejaculation.  As I after rubbing and Scrubbing 🤭 always explode peacefully.. We are not tress or animals who should only ejaculate for natural purposes. We can with the help of technology can ejaculate as much as we want as long as it doesn't harm us mentally or physically. 

I can see what you mean by heightened pleasures of digging deep into edging by touching and feeling the body and comparing it to drugs and its aftereffects. And thats the exact detering factor for me. Because I am scared of these sort of morphed unnatural pleasures which are so Askewed that that tend to morph the realities like there is nothing outside the room or hot feels more hot and cold feels more cold. It's just Warped.